

Halloween Costumes and The Ever Present Shamers
First of all, let me start by informing you that Halloween is my favorite Holiday and Fall is my absolute most loved Season. Ok, I feel better now. To the shamers and the haters, this one is for you. If you are making fun of people, fat-shaming, slut-shaming, degrading any gender/identity/sexuality, choosing “humor” over racially, ethnically, and culturally based costumes, or are just in general, shaming anyone or finding a way to be negative and hateful, check yo’self this y

Marriage and Politics- A Disgrace to our Nation.
As much as I despise the need for this blog, I must urge you all to read the necessary information and to encourage you to GET OUT AND VOTE AND VOTE ASAP! We need to save our rights and protect the marriages of our LGBTQIA+ community. Our votes matter. We matter. Our love matters. Our partners matter. Our relationships matter. Once upon a time, not really that long ago, getting married in this country was a hurdle for couples of different races, religions, and often even thos


The First Amendment and Your Sex Life.
Make the Supreme Court decision making bias free.


Body Image Issues and Your Sex Life…Let’s Communicate
If you’re anything like me, when you look in a mirror or see yourself in all of your naked glory in the shower, all you see are your flaws. UGH! Why are we designed this way? It’s as if our brains are programmed to self-sabotage. I don’t look for these things intentionally, my eyes are drawn to them and my brain goes into overdrive with negative thoughts, overwhelming anxiety, and then I end up in a dark place and a spiral of depression. All of these things affect us in so ma